How do I have more friends? (law of attraction)
Everyone wants to look attractive, lovable, and kind to have more friends in society. However, some wrong behavior habits will take away our attractiveness from us without realizing it. We will introduce some of these behaviors to you. If you find any of them in yourself, eliminate them immediately. After leaving these behaviors, you will see that your circle of friends will gradually grow.
1- We only think about ourselves
Many people have this feature without even knowing it. They only focus on themselves, they only talk about themselves, and they won’t care what others have to say. In this case, we think we are the only person who matters. If we have these characteristics, it’s time to change ourselves. No one wants to befriend a person who only thinks about himself.
2- We focus on external beauty and don’t see the inside
True beauty originates from the heart and soul. Our physical appearance is not our most important feature. Some people who behave badly think appearance is the only thing that matters. Look in the mirror and try to see the depth of our being. The person behind our outer appearance may not be as beautiful as we think, so let’s put aside appearances and try to change our thinking.
3- We are constantly competing
Are we a person who feels that he should be better than everyone else and that what he has is more than everyone else? If so, we are not an attractive person. We should care more about our friends and be happy for their successes. For example, if our friend overcomes his fear of heights and climbs ten steps of the ladder, we should not say: “That’s all? “I can climb 30 stairs.” Instead, encourage him and say, “Great, I’m proud of you.”
4- We consider our friends as our enemies
Unpleasant people usually quarrel with their friends. Instead of being with and caring about our friends, we always turn our backs on them and stab them in the back. If we want to look attractive, we must learn that our friends are not our enemies; they are on our side.
5- We always worry that others don’t care about us
If this issue is always a concern for us, why do others not care about us as they should and perhaps do not pay attention to us as much as we expect? Then, we are non-sticky people in every sense. For example, when two of our friends go out without us, it is not a big issue for them, but it is for us. Let’s face it: they’re still our friends, but their lives go on when we’re not around.
6- We remove the game boss
In a friendly group, everyone always has an equal share. If we are one of those people who make all the decisions, feel like we have to give orders all the time, and try to control other people’s work, we should know that our behavior is not attractive.
7- We are not honest
Honesty and being honest. When it comes to friendship and developing relationships, honesty is one of the most important features that comes to mind. Most people with unpleasant behavior are usually not honest; they lie about everything, from the smallest question to how they feel about various issues. Don’t forget that honesty is always the best policy.
8- We are not the principles of manners
If we embarrass our friends in public with rude behavior and words, let’s stop this habit right now. No one wants to be around such a person. There are always times when we don’t agree with someone or witness a scene that we don’t like, but that’s not a reason to make a fuss about it. Then, people only see our unpleasant behavior and can’t understand the problems. See from our point of view.
9- We are not trustworthy, but we depend on others
Are we ready to help when our friends need our help? Or are we one of those people who call us from a friend to ask for help or guidance, our phone gets lost, and the charge runs out, and…? If we are a person who cannot be counted on, this feature is a weakness for us in friendship. Also, if we are someone who constantly asks for help from this and that but is never willing to help anyone, this is another weakness that no one wants to have in their friend.
10- We always see the glass half-empty
Pessimism is not an attractive trait. We try to change our perspective if we constantly look at everything pessimistically. No one wants to be friends with a person who, instead of enjoying the positive aspects of life, is always moaning and groaning about the negative aspects.
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